The most common question from people that have never been to a fetish party before is - what should I be wearing???

We appreciate the genuine interest so we have made this page in order to help you.

First things first – we always say that when going out for a night on the town that you should treat it as one. Make a real solid effort. Look your best. Looking your best makes you feel your best – when you feel your best - then your night out can be a complete blast.

Not only does a good looking ensemble make you look good but it is a hint to the others around you of what you are about and enhances the experience for everyone and the party as a whole.

Americans are constantly criticized for our Fetish Party Dress!!!!!

We as Americans are commonly criticized by persons from other countries that are visiting us for the lack of interest in the way we look when we go out.

When attending a fetish event in London, you will see everyone dressed to the absolute max - Eye candy in every direction. They think that we here in America have lost our interest in looking our best when going to parties or clubs.

Why should we care what we are wearing if we are at a party?

Now here is some food for thought – if you are a single male, female, TG or even a couple and you are on the hunt for new friends, mates or playmates – wouldn’t you be more drawn to a person or people if they were dressed amazing? In order to meet someone new – make a serious effort.

Now for the outside persons view

We are very shocked when we see people wander into an event looking as if they just rolled out of bed five minutes before showing up! Or our favorite – the person that walks in wearing a sweatshirt and jeans with sneakers thinking that they look good?

From our eyes this form of dress is in the worst taste possible. It is far from attractive and to be blunt it’s tacky. The persons that come to these events dressed like this are usually completely isolated and do not make any new friends. All this just because you were too lazy to get dressed up? We can honestly say that laziness is no excuse.

Why this is a big deal aside from the obvious?

We are the first ones to be questioned by the people who arrive looking like something the cat dragged in about why no one is talking to them or criticizing us for not meeting anyone new. And rather than being blatantly honest and telling them that their dress leaves much to be desired – we gently guide and advise them on how to enhance their night by dressing sexier next time they attend.

Saddest part is that many people that ask us what they should wear to an event usually show up and introduce themselves to us and much to our chagrin – are the perpetrators of this dress disaster.

The general idea is to dress up to ENHANCE the vibe of the event - not take away from it by being labeled the Party Pooper.

A Good Rule of Thumb

You made the effort to come out and do something new and exciting – don’t stop there – go the whole nine yards – make this an experience. It’s not like you go out to these events every single day – make it an occasion.

You don’t go to a persons wedding or anniversary party dressed in jeans and a white t-shirt so why go to a erotic fetish party like that? Better yet – why bother going out if you aren’t going to make an effort at all?

We do our part as the Producers and Staff to put together the perfect measure of ingredients to make all the parties the best possible – so we say – Do your part – show how good looking you can be – express yourself – take advantage of your night out.

Call a friend – take them shopping with you – make an outfit – dress up your date! Make it a real big deal – trust us your efforts show everyone that sees you who and what you are all about.

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